Sadie Robertson catapulted into stardom as a young teenager, starring in the hit reality series AEs Duck Dynasty, as well as landing first runner up on ABCs Dancing With The Stars Seasonat justyears of age The nowyear old has expanded her platform as a motivational speaker and advocate for her generation On a mission to empower her peers in the name of positivity, self confidence, and a call to live original, Sadie designed and launched acity motivational tour called the Live Original Tour inShe recently announced her plans for Live Original Tourset for this fall Sadie has also ventured into acting, appearing in Gods Not Dead , thefilm about Columbine shooting victim Rachel Joy Scott Im Not Ashamed, as well as taking on a starring role in the Hallmark movie, Sun, Sand, Romance Sadie embodies the creative and entrepreneurial spirit of the Robertson family and has carried her philosophy into multiple business ventures including her own phone app, SADIE, a prom dress line with Sherri Hill, school supplies for DaySpring, jewelry and home goods with Glory Haus, and a fashion line with Wild Blue Denim She has also partnered with Roma Boots and worked alongside them in their mission to give poverty the boot and spends time every year traveling the world serving those in need with One Squad, a group of young people that Sadie created with Help One Now, that seeks to engage her generation in social justice by caring for children and orphans around the world A bestselling author, Sadie is currently working on the follow up to her New York Times bestselling book, Live Original How the Duck Commander Teen Keeps It Real and Stays True to Her Values, which, along with her newest books, Life Just Got Real and Live Original Devotional are available at retailers nationwide Forinformation, please visit LiveOriginalBeth Clark is a writer and publishing consultantand runs a business called Thinkspot Communications in Franklin, TennesseeLive Original CHAPTER ONE Think Happy, Be Happy If there is one thing my family hears a lot, its this Happy, happy, happy My grandfather Phil Robertson, whom I call Papaw Phil, is famous for these words, and I am glad he is I like being part of a family thats happy I know that not everyone has a happy family, but we can still choose to live a happy life, because happiness starts with whats inside of us, not with what we have or do not have If we can think happy, we can be happy When I was in junior high school, I learned a song called Garbage in, Garbage Out I liked it because of the words, and so I played the song for my eighth grade Bible class and gave a speech about it I learned an important lesson from that song what you think about will come out in your life If you put garbage into your mind, garbage will come out Its just like what happens if you put junk food into your body If you eat nothing but chips and desserts, you will not end up being lean and fit and strong To put it politely, youll be the opposite In the same way, if you fill your mind with negative thoughts, bad words, or ideas that are not nice or respectful toward others, you will eventually think bad thoughts, use bad language, and act on bad ideas The good thing about the garbage in, garbage out principle is that it also means that if you fill your mind with positive thoughts, encouraging words, and ideas about how to be kind or how to be a good friend, then all those things will show up in the way you act and eventually become the way you live HAPPY TODAY, HAPPY TOMORROW Theres a connection between the way you think and the way you are Not only that, theres also a direct link between the way you think today and the person you will become tomorrow Your thoughts, words, and actions will determine your lifethan anything else than where you go to college,than what you major in, andthan the first job you get Years ago, someone came up with a great quotation that makes this point really well I say years ago because a version of this saying goes back at least to , and I say someone because it has been credited to all kinds of people, from Mahatma Gandhi to Margaret Thatchers father to the founder of a supermarket chain in Texas Im not sure anyone knows who should really get the credit for it, but I like the words, and I know they are true Watch your thoughts, for they become words Watch your words, for they become actions Watch your actions, for they become habits Watch your habits, for they become your character Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny The short Sadie version of this quotation is your thoughts determine your destiny If you want to get a glimpse of where you are headed in the future, start by looking at what youre thinking about today Before you go any farther in this book, I want to encourage you to make up your mind to be happy, because your mind is where happiness begins Thinking happy will not mess up your schedule, and it will not cost any money, but it will be the best investment you can make It wont even make you tired in fact, it will probably give youenergy than ever, because happiness just has that effect on people If you are down or discouraged, decide today to shake that off and become a happier person by thinking happier thoughts You can make your life and your future better just by thinking happier thoughts HAPPINESS STARTS WITH YOU Too many people believe that other people will make them happy This is especially true for teenagers So many of us think we will be happy if we can just hang out with the right group of people or if we can get the boyfriend or girlfriend we want We also tend to think things will make us happy We say we will be happy if we can get a certain outfit, pair of boots, new type of phone, or kind of car We sometimes think well be happy if we make the best grades in the class, have the lead in a play, or are starters or high scorers on a sports team I have to say to my fellow teenagers this kind of thinking is just not right True happiness doesnt depend on a certain group of friends, a boyfriend or girlfriend, a new phone, an outfit, or a car These things might make us excited for a little while, but they cannot make us truly happy for a long while Ultimately, happiness can only come from inside you If you allow any of these other things to determine your happiness, you will always be let down The world is not perfect people disappoint us, friends change or move, parents lose jobs, and bad things happen Paul said in Philippians I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want I can do everything through him who gives me strength For several years, my family and I have traveled to the Dominican Republic on mission trips Ill writeabout that later, but for now I just want to say that when we go, we meet people who have nothing the world says is important, yet they are happy Then I think about the TV show where a couple who won millions of dollars in a lottery was interviewed This couple said it was the worst thing that had ever happened to themthe money just created a lot of stress They said their whole family ended up fighting over the money and then lost it because they did not know how to manage it Im guessing that these people were not happy with what they had before they won the lottery, so its not surprising that they werent happy withHappiness is a choicea choice to be joyful, no matter what the circumstance This is something adults try to tell us, and Ill admit it theyre right The only thing that can really make us happy is a relationship with God If we know Him and do our best to do what His Word tells us to do, we will enjoy lifelong happiness He knows exactly what we need in order to be truly happy, and He will lead us to those experiences if we seek Him, trust Him, and obey Him We have to make a choice to have a relationship with Him Thats the best and most important choice we will ever make It will not guarantee that we wont have hard times, but it will take us a long way toward a happy life As teenagers, there are a lot of things you and I do not have control over But we arepercent in control of the way we think, the way we feel, and the choices we make We have the power to choose what we think, and what we think will determine the way we feel Bible teacher Joyce Meyer says Positive thinking doesnt just happen Its something you have to do on purpose I always try to put positive things into my mind so that positive things will come out in my words and actions Like other people, I do not always feel like being positive or happy Sometimes it would be a lot easier to complain, but what good would that do me Sure, sometimes it takeseffort to be happy than to be sad, but the result is worth the effort We are naturally drawn to people who are positive and happy When I see a positive person, I think they have their life figured out They seem to have everything going on I want to get to know those people because they have something I think is valuable confidence and a happy, positive attitude Negative people are no fun to be around and they certainly dont seem confident or together If we hang out with positive people, their good attitudes will influence us, and we will become upbeat and happy too But like Joyce Meyer says, it will not just happen We have to work on it every day We have to choose to be positive, even when circumstances are negative We have to choose to be happy, even when discouraging things come our way If you are not in the habit of choosing to be happy, it may take some practice But just keep working on it Youll get thereand youll be glad you did THE HAPPIEST PEOPLE I KNOW When I think about people who are truly happy, I have to mention my two sisters At the time Im writing this book, my little sister, Bella, is eleven years old My older sister, Rebecca, is twenty five She came to live with our family inas an exchange student from Taiwan, and now she is just as much a part of our family as the rest of us Bella is only in fifth grade, but I know a lot of fifth graders who already take life very seriously Bella does not She loves to laugh and play, and if she is involved in something, she is determined to make it a fun, happy experience for herself and for everyone else She has a great sense of humor, which I think is very mature for her age Unlike a lot of kids her age, she does not laugh at bathroom jokes or sarcastic comments about other people She knows what is genuinely funny in a clean, wholesome way, and she can dish out that kind of humor like no eleven year old I have ever met I think Bellas main goal in life right now is to put smiles on other peoples faces She just loves to make others happy thats what she thinks about, so thats how she lives And if a persons goal is to make others happy, then that person will definitely be happy too Another thing Bella does is refuse to get upset over little things Not long ago, one of her friends was mean to her and blocked her on Instagram Instead of coming home from school that day pouting about the situation or being dramatic and feeling that no one liked her any, Bella simply said, That was ridiculous I mean, that was ree diculous She could have easily been hurt or angry, but she was not In fact, the whole incident really did not faze her She is not the kind of person who lets other peoples actions upset her, and thats a big reason she is so happy Rebecca is one of those people who is cute and happy and bubbly almost all the time She loves to laugh and to make others laugh, and she really enjoys telling jokes The problem with her jokes is that they may be funny in her native language or in the country where she was raised, but they are not funny at all in English or in Louisiana Heres one of her jokes One time a banana got hot and took off his coat and slipped Yep, that was the joke Heres another one Once there was a match that had an itchy head he scratched it and caught himself on fire Ha See what I mean The fact that the jokes are not funny ends up making Rebeccas attempts at humor kind of funny in their own way We all laugh at her jokes just because she tries so hard to spread laughter around our family Rebecca is strong and positive, and other people cannot help but be happy around her I am so glad she joined our family because just her presence makes me happy While Im thinking about happy people, I cant overlook my great uncle Si Seriously, he is the happiest, funniest, most positive person I know Im sure a lot of people my age cannot say they have a strong relationship with their great uncle, but Uncle Si and I are very close I like being around him as much as possible, because any time he is involved in anything, its a guaranteed laugh He has the ability to make anything fun and to see the humor in things that might be frustrating to other people Recently, Uncle Si was duck hunting in very cold weather with Papaw Phil and my uncles Suddenly, their boat began to sink I was not there, but I heard the sinking boat brought out everyones true personality Papaw Phil took it like a man he just stood there and watched while the boat sank and then walked very calmly through the water to the duck blind, even though he was about to freeze My uncles were jumping around screaming, all shouting out different ways to fix the boat And Uncle Si just laughed and told jokes while he watched the boat go down One time something really sad happened to Uncle Si his house was infested with termites He and his wife, Christine, had lived in that house for a long time It was home to them and they really loved it The termites did a lot of damage to the house before Uncle Si realized it, so he and Christine had no choice but to move out before it fell down Uncle Sis response to the situation was not, Oh, poor me Im losing the house Ive loved and lived in all these years His response was, Okay Weve got termites We need to get a new house So they moved into a new home, and they are very happy there I know the reason Uncle Si handled this situation so well is that he does not let his circumstances determine his happiness He is a happy person, no matter where he lives He was happy in his old house, and all he had to do when he moved to the new house was take his happiness with him And for Uncle Si, that was no problem at all WE WERE HAPPY BEFORE Lots of little girls like the movie Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs I was one of them One of the songs in the movie is Whistle While You Work The lesson of the song is that workwhether its homework or cleaning your room or a job in some kind of businessdoes not have to be boring or hard It can be fun if you think of ways to make it fun I have never been good at whistling, but I love to sing while I work In fact, I have always turned my study guides into songs or raps to help me remember things A lot of people think the job I have nowon Duck Dynastyis really fun They say they would do anything if they could be a television star Being on TV is fun at times, but at other times its hard workjust like anybody elses job I can choose to be happy about it or to complain about it because I have to film instead of going out with my friends I almost always decide to be cheerful about it, because that just makes life a whole lot easier than being angry or disappointed I guess I learned to be happy when I was very young and worked in my familys duck call business This was way before most people ever heard of Duck Commander Serious hunters knew about my papaw Phils company, but not many other people did Even though the company was not the big business it is now, it took all of us in the family to make it successfuleven me, when I was six or seven years old When I was that age, my older brother, John Luke, and I worked for Duck Commander during the summers and at other times when we were not in school Our cousins Reed and Cole Jase and Missys sons worked with us The four of us are very close in age John Luke and Reed were born during the same year About two years later, Cole and I were born within several months of each other So all of us have grown up together, and now our two families live right across the street from each other When all of us were young, wed pile into someones car and make the trip to Mamaw Kay most people call her Miss Kay and Papaw Phils house, which is about forty five minutes from our house In those days, my grandparents ran the Duck Commander business from their home They had enough land to build a warehouse on their property, so thats where the boys and I went when we went to work We packed boxes, answered phones, and did everything else we could to fill orders for duck calls The song Hollaback Girl was popular at that time, and we sang it often, calling it our warehouse song At the end of each day, Mamaw Kay gave us each five dollars But those payments were not our greatest rewards Our greatest rewards were all the good times we spent with our grandparents and the lessons we learned from them Mamaw Kay and Papaw Phil did not have much money back then, and they definitely were not famous like they are today But they were happy The boys and I never questioned that We saw our grandparents work really, really hard to make a small business successful We saw them love God, love each other, and love our family We knew from the time we were really young that these things are what make people truly happy Mamaw Kay has been a happy person for as long as I can remember She is the type of grandmother who always has a big hug for her grandchildren, who loves to teach us lessons from the Bible and important things about life, who makes us cookies or our favorite meal for no special reason, and who always sees the best in us I dont mean she overlooks our faults or lets us get away with being disobedient She never had any trouble punishing us when we were little for example, if we argued in her house, we had to go outside until we could be nice to each other , but she is also quick to compliment us when we do well, and she tells us often how much she loves us Papaw Phil has also been happy for as long as I can remember I dont think a lot of people realize this about him because he comes across so differently from Mamaw Kay He is not one of those sweet, cuddly grandfathers who wraps you up in his arms and starts swinging you around when you go to see him Hes a man who is happy because he is totally comfortable with himself, and he has no need to impress anybody He knows what he believes and he sticks to it, no matter what other people think He tells the truth exactly as he sees it, and if people dont like it, that does not bother him I have never seen him sad or shaken he is solid And hes happy When I think about high school students like me and about all the drama that goes on because someone does not feel accepted by the popular group, I get really sad Some students spend so much time being upset and disappointed, when they could spend that same amount of time doing what makes them happy and following their dreamsinstead of getting upset about what other people think If we could all just take a lesson from Papaw Phil and accept ourselves even if others reject us, we would be a lot happier People who can be who they are, and accept themselves as they are, are some of the strongest, happiest people in the world My papaw Phil is definitely one of them All of our family is happybecause our happiness is not based on being on TV or on any of the things that come with it Not that we never face struggles and not that we never get down about something, but underneath it all, we really are happy Our happiness is based on loving God and knowing God loves us, and on loving each other Thats what makes us happy, happy, happy

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